hi, I have a 7 mo who is now screaming when I g...

hi, I have a 7 mo who is now screaming when I give her lunch. She is hungry but screams. She is happier to suck on her spoon rather than open her mouth for food. I tried the two spoon approach one for her and one for me to put the food in her mouth, but she spits part of it out. I am almost having to resort to force feeding her! (which I do not like doing)I think it could be that I have dropped the 11am feed, however I did it very slowly over a few weeks to ensure it wouldn't affect her. She used to be more settled when I feed her before lunch, however wouldn't eat enough solids. I want to drop this feed so she can have protein in her lunch to help her grow. The only way she settles is having a nectarine to suck on after I have forced the food down her! She also has a beaker which she drinks water. Any ideas would be much appreciated.